The phrase "first refuge" means the very first safe place or person that someone goes to seek protection or comfort in times of trouble or danger.
Sentences with «first refuge»
As a result, Rhode Island became first their refuge and then their stronghold. (religion-online.org)
Maybe i will use use your previous statement given you made no argument only an accusation... perhaps» «The first refuge of the cornered fool.» (religion.blogs.cnn.com)
A retreat to «you just don't understand» is the first refuge of the arrogant. (religion.blogs.cnn.com)